REASONS FOR MARRIAGE – God’s original reason for instituting marriage

Posted by on November 9th, 2009 under Courtship, Family, Friendship, Guys, Ladies, Love, Teenagers • No Comments

BY: PASTOR BISI ADEWALE
Scriptural Background: Isa.45:18; Mal.2:13-17
Many people are going into marriage today for wrong reasons, which is the main reason why many marriages are crashing before they even left the altar.
WRONG REASONS FOR MARRIAGE
1. Monetary gains
2. Position
3. Sex
4. Child bearing
5. Wealth
6. Business gains
7. Just to feel good
8. Just to show off to people that [...]

RELATIONSHIP THAT WORKS

Posted by on November 9th, 2009 under Courtship, Friendship, Guys, Ladies, Love, Sex, Teenagers, Youth • No Comments

BY: PASTOR BISI ADEWALE
There are many but not every relationship that really works. Some work, while some failed, but no relationship will leave you the same way. It either gives you joy or you receive sorrow from it. Then how do you know the ones that work?
1. DIVINE INVOLVEMENT: One of the best ingredients of [...]

MATURITY PHASES BEFORE MARRIAGE

Posted by on November 9th, 2009 under Courtship, Friendship, Guys, Ladies, Love, Youth • No Comments

BY: PASTOR BISI ADEWALE
“To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven” (Eccl. 3:1).
I strongly believe everybody is designed for a mate. There is a maid for every male. There is a man for every ‘wo-man’. God made it so, When He commanded Noah to build an ark, He also ordered [...]

THINGS THAT CAN DESTORY A GUY

Posted by on October 14th, 2009 under Courtship, Friendship, Guys, Ladies, Love, Sex, Youth • No Comments

BY: PASTOR BISI ADEWALE
There are many things that can destroy the life of a young man, it can hurt their destiny, can stop their growth, slow their progress or block their advancement in life. All young man should know these things and avoid them like a plague, they are:
1, Living without God: This is the [...]

A-Z COUNSEL FOR SINGLES

Posted by on October 14th, 2009 under Courtship, Friendship, Guys, Ladies, Love, Sex, Youth • No Comments

BY: PASTOR BISI ADEWALE
A – Abide in the Lord and allow the Lord to abide in your family.
B- Be ye doers of all your courtship commitments.
C- Care for your in-laws as much as you can afford.
D- Determines by God’s grace to get along well with them.
E- Erase from your mind all bad and horrible experiences [...]

MARRIAGE AND MATURITY

Posted by on October 8th, 2009 under Courtship, Friendship, Guys, Ladies, Love, Sex, Youth • No Comments

BY: PASTOR BISI ADEWALE
Though many single guys and ladies dream of marriage, but are they all eligible to go into it? Certainly not. Marriage is not for boys and girls, it is for matured minds. Being ripe for marriage is not just a matter of age. For you need to be matured for marriage. Maturity [...]

KILLERS OF RELATIONSHIP

Posted by on October 8th, 2009 under Courtship, Friendship, Guys, Ladies, Love, Youth • No Comments

BY: Pastor Oba Samuel
Healthy relationship is the dream of everybody but the truth is the, it’s not hereditary, it is not by accident, rather it is a product of character. Broken relationship is no longer new among brethren as it takes its toll on the church. But careful examination of oneself and the ability to [...]

LOVE & COURTSHIP – Guys God will not Lead in Marriage

Posted by on October 8th, 2009 under Courtship, Guys, Ladies, Youth • No Comments

BY: PASTOR BISI ADEWALE
Imagine a marriage without divine consent from God. It is like a man that rush into a house he had set on fire and look up the door against himself. What will happen next? Disaster of course! So goes the life of any man that marry without been led by the spirit [...]

BECOMING MARRIAGEABLE

Posted by on October 4th, 2009 under Courtship, Friendship, Guys, Ladies, Love, Youth • 2 Comments

BY: PASTOR OBA SAMUEL
Getting into marriage is a dream of every single brother and sister but many don’t know how to. Marriage is not a sudden event; it has to be prepared for. Becoming marriageable entails wisdom and knowledge which you need and it may free you from marital delay.
1. Spiritually: You need to prepare [...]

FOUNDATION FOR COURTSHIP

Posted by on October 4th, 2009 under Courtship, Guys, Ladies, Love, Youth • No Comments

BY: PASTOR BISI ADEWALE
Before you go into courtship there are foundations to be laid. If ignored, it can pose problems for the future home.
These are:
1. God’s Leading: You must be sure God if God is the one leading you into that relationship before going into it. I was talking to a brother few days ago, [...]